Y’all Are Both Stupid
12 Principles That Will Help You Be Less Stupid in Your Relationship
Relationships are hard. Being stupid makes them harder.
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Most couples don't get into trouble because they want a bad relationship. They get into trouble because they keep doing things that make a difficult situation worse.
Sometimes it's the way you communicate. Sometimes it's what you expect from your partner. And sometimes you're so busy pointing out what your partner is doing wrong that you never stop to consider what you're contributing to the problem.
Y'all Are Both Stupid takes a direct, sometimes humorous look at 12 principles that can help you recognize those patterns, understand why they create problems, and start doing something different.
This isn't about deciding who's right or who's wrong. It's about recognizing what isn't working and learning how to stop making your relationship harder than it needs to be.
Because relationships are hard enough without making them harder.
Y’all Are Both Stupid
Companion Workbook
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The companion workbook is in its final stages of preparation and will be available to purchase here when it launches.
Reading about what you should do differently is one thing. Actually doing it is another.
The companion workbook takes the 12 principles from Y’all Are Both Stupid and helps you put them to work in your own relationship.
Through practical exercises, guided reflections, and honest questions, you'll take a closer look at how you communicate, handle disagreements, manage expectations, and respond when things don't go your way.
Some exercises will help you identify what isn't working. Others will challenge you to consider what you can do differently instead of waiting for your partner to change.
You can work through the exercises together or on your own. Either way, the purpose is the same: turn what you've learned into changes you can actually make.
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