NO NONSENSE WITH DR. JOHN
Relationships are hard.
Let's make yours better.
Understand what is working, identify what is getting in the way, and choose something useful to do next.
Read it. Then put it to work.
Y’all Are Both Stupid and The Companion Workbook are preparing for launch.

12 Principles That Will Help You Be Less Stupid in Your Relationship
Most couples don’t get into trouble because they want a bad relationship. They get into trouble because they keep doing things that make a difficult situation worse.

The companion workbook takes the 12 principles from Y’all Are Both Stupid and helps you put them to work in your own relationship.
A better relationship starts with something you can change.
You cannot do your partner’s work for them. You can take an honest look at your own habits, understand what keeps going wrong, and try a more useful response. That is the idea here: practical relationship education, a little humor, and something you can actually use.
Start hereAre Y'all Being Stupid?
Explore twelve relationship areas with category results, practical next steps, and a downloadable personal report. Email required for report delivery.
Start the relationship checkup →Try thisA better response starts here
The Decoder
Heard the words. Missed the meaning? Try a common phrase, consider what might be behind it, and find a useful way to respond.
Open the Decoder →Read something useful. Try one thing differently.
Make your request clearer, check what you heard, and choose a response that helps the conversation.
Notice the pattern in a recurring argument and look for a practical next step.
Explore the everyday agreements and follow-through that help people rely on each other.
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