Free relationship checkup
Are Y’all Being Stupid?
Explore the habits in twelve areas of your relationship, with personalized results available immediately.
See your category scores and practical suggestions, then download your free PDF report. Email is required for results delivery. Practical follow-ups are optional. No purchase or account is required.
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Want to understand these 12 principles better?
Y'all Are Both Stupid takes a closer look at the habits that make relationships harder than they need to be. The companion workbook helps you put those principles into practice.
The free assessment gives you a place to start.


Book and workbook coming soon. Neither is required to use the free assessment.